The world always has to change, that is the way of life. People make decisions that change their entire path everyday.
Have you ever pondered, “What if I hadn’t gotten on that train?” “What if I hadn’t said that?”
It is easy to always think about the “what if”, but it is always healthier to think about the future. You can’t change the past but you can dictate what is to come.
These past few paragraphs may sound deep and heavy but I have been struggling with this issue lately, and I have recently found a comfortable balance between the struggle with finding the new and being happy with the decisions I have made.
I hope that all of this pondering will pay off in the near future and I will be able to find a place where I am happy professionally, socially and internally.
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You’re not alone! I think about how different my life would be if situation A B and C didn’t present themselves. Some of my past experiences were painful, stressful and even frightening but they all led to where I am now and I have full confidence that the pattern will continue. Everyone feels this way, it’s only natural. The trick is to just believe that since everything has worked out before, it will work out again and again and again;….